Penultimate weekend, star actress Tonto Dikeh kicked off her wedding rites. The ceremony held on Saturday, 8th August 2015 in Port Harcourt, Rivers state capital. Tonto Wigo Dikeh-Churchill. Her husband’s name is Oladunni Churchill. He Is the CEO of Big Churchill Haven Limited, and Big Church Entertainment in Ikoyi, Lagos. Below are excerpts from her instagram posts on issues relating to her pre-nuptials?
GOD SETTLED ME WITH MEETING OLADUNNI
Pure joy. But the God of all grace, who hath called us unto his eternal Glory by Christ Jesus, after that ye have suffered a while, make you perfect, stabilize, strengthened and settles you. 1 peter 5: 10. How God has settled me, dancing like David danced.
MY STEPMOTHER
My step mom is an angel. I remember being young and saying I want to marry a man with kids so I can be a steppy too, just to prove to people that you don’t have to be a witch as a step mom. This woman is my life and strength. She was busy entertaining at my introduction/1st segment of my bride price payment that we didn’t take more pictures. God bless our mothers.
THE OBASANJO LINK
‘‘A big congratulations to us and thanks to everyone who wished us well and still wishing us. Special thanks to my father-in-law, the ex-president of Nigeria, Baba Obj and my lovely mother –in-law. Exclusive special thanks to my lovely father and best friend Chief Hon. Dike and also to the best step Mom in the whole world, who never ceases to pray for me. I am a happy woman and nothing will ever take that away from me. I have the best mother in-law and in-laws any girl can wish for.’’ City People gathered that Tonto’s husband is a nephew to former president Chief Olusegun Obasanjo.
HER EX & FINDING LOVE AGAIN
The people who prioritised work over relationships aren’t happy with their lives. You have to be able to find a balance. Yes we all have an economic reality, but no money can love you. Be happy at every opportunity, never repress your love for the sake of trying to make enough money’’. What is enough? Can you feed yourself? Do you have a bed to sleep at night? Yet you want a bigger bed, forgetting that you could be looking for someone to share it with. Don’t miss out on family just for money. Don’t turn into a bitter and cynical person because you were in love once and it didn’t work out.
Yes you invested emotionally into your partner, but you will always have more energy.
You have a lot of Love to give, energy can’t be destroyed so you can’t say it was wasted. Your partner cheated on you, doesn’t mean all humans are cheats.
My ex was a cheat, a prolific internet whore and a fake. But that didn’t stop me from loving even harder the next time. You have to be in it to win it. Building breakable barriers will leave you lonely. Loneliness would leave you sad. If you don’t allow people to get close to you, then you will never feel. Feeling are like visitors, let them come and go. So catch the feelings and flights, but don’t forget love, because that is what all humans need. Don’t let modern trends change your mind-set in Cynical ways. Leaving a life without love, is not living at all.
FINDING MR RIGHT
Some people are beautiful not in looks, not in what they say but in who they truly are. True beauty doesn’t beg for attention. It doesn’t care for likes and mentions. It cannot be quantified by Aesthetics. It is a deep and purposeful truth, acknowledge by the soul. My sisters don’t delay your marital blessings/happiness just because you want the instagram fame.
Don’t give yourself too much prayer points in the future when you can decently correct your now, now.at the end of the day the same guys you nude for today will be the ones to marry off your juniors and rubbish your name and you might miss out on a lot of blessings (contracts, endorsement etc.). Remember we live in Africa where a wrong negative word imprinted in the hearts of others told by others can ruin your life.
Be wise today my darlings. Hand on let me get this straight, you expect a Queen to be intelligent, Sexy, sophisticated, ambitious, successful, not slept with any people you might know, honest, funny, kind, caring, Aesthetically attractive to you, strong, doesn’t consider you a financial plan, self-confident, loyal.
Amazing body, great with kids, witty, looks after you, cook, clean, generally sort your life out, style you, give you great massages, workout with you.be friends with your mom when you don’t want to be friends with your mum. Organize your schedule, make enough money to support you both if you ever need it, but now more than you, smile whenever you tell her to, basically not breath, dress up for sex but not dress up too much when she goes out.
But all you have to offer her is your dick, ladies don’t let no man sap all of your energy and love when he obviously have nothing to offer you asides from good sex, been there, trust me I ran away. Most annoying is when you as a woman have to be the bread winner and still receive nothing but the good dick. A good dick never built a house or paid the rent, a hard working dedicated supportive man does.
LOVE
I have not always been lucky with love and relationships but right now, I am happy I have found love. I have too many thoughts on marriage and I can spend an entire day speaking about it. I will marry whoever God leads me to. The inspiration behind my hit track Sugar Rush is the fact that love conquers all.
REGRETS
I have absolutely no regrets in life because I consider every experience a lesson for me. I am most thankful for the life I am living and don’t wish to be anybody but me.
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